Friday, March 25, 2011

timing

Its a funny thing being friends, yet having those thin boundaries. Its easy to cross over and get into the twilight zone between familiarity and extreme closeness.

Recent events in life have proved that sometimes its good to just back off. Over familiarity breeds weirdness. Offering a ear when it is not needed creates awkwardness. Sometimes I think Im sensitive to whats going on, but I go the extra mile and try and be there, when the other person might not really need/want it. In such times its best to let go and lend a ear, if ask. IF asked.

That's probably another thing Iv learnt in recent time. Its all about timing. To do everything in its time. Not before. Not after. JUST WHEN.

9 comments:

nil said...

"Over familiarity breeds weirdness. "----> SO.TRUE.

couldn't agree more!

Citrus said...

What a nice post.

hAAthi said...

:) really? this was semi-rant-semi-thinking-out-loud

Ranjan Atreya said...

Hmmm

nakedswaMi said...

macha, after going to goa youv become one numbers philosopher a?

VC said...

Yes aa? who da? who din listen??

hAAthi said...

nangee: yes, im now gyaani maharaj.

vc: il tell you later, its a secret ;)

☆ Crazy Diamond ☆ said...

exactly !!!

Karishma Sundaram said...

So true. Awful to be thought of as nosy/intrusive, eh? Good intentions totally misunderstood. :-(