of all the millions of feelings i am capable of feeling, the one i hate most is regret. and im feeling regret right now. lots of it. and i have to make it stop.
I guess one of the most important things is to able to forgive yourself. People always talk about the ability to forgive others. But I think, if you can forgive yourself, then you will be able to forgive others.
Forgiving yourself means it's ok to fuck up. Sometimes, you do your best and things still get screwed up. Sometimes you don't do your best and things get screwed up. Either way you learn. From the first instance you learn that things might not go your way even if you do your best. That's life. From the second instance, you learn to give your best the next time.
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EH! I keep saying one of the saddest things in life is 'what if'
What if I had done this.
What if I had done that.
But it actually isn't. All decisions are made based on things that are apparent to you during a current situation.
20/20 hindsight always gives you more information that makes you think that a so-and-so decision was a wrong one. But it isn't.
SO DONT FEEL BLAH. There's always the future. Look forward, not backward.
HUGS :)
:)
thanks daddy ak :)
youre right. im just stuck in the shitty moment.
it WILL go.
Yeah!
I'm telling you. Hindsight is always very clear. Don't think about all that.
Decisions are always made based on a set of variables at a time. THOSE ALWAYS CHANGE as you move along.
So, never regret a decision. It's made, it's done and it's over.
:D
there WILL be a next time.. teehee..
WARNING: Long comment!
I guess one of the most important things is to able to forgive yourself. People always talk about the ability to forgive others. But I think, if you can forgive yourself, then you will be able to forgive others.
Forgiving yourself means it's ok to fuck up. Sometimes, you do your best and things still get screwed up. Sometimes you don't do your best and things get screwed up. Either way you learn. From the first instance you learn that things might not go your way even if you do your best. That's life. From the second instance, you learn to give your best the next time.
It's not easy forgiving yourself though.
some people can't forgive themselves. crosses are meant to be borne.
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